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Welland, Ontario, Canada CAS Hana House Stole my Baby

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on Sat, 03/03/2012 - 04:54

Welland, Ontario, Canada CAS Hana House Stole my Baby

Thu, 01/12/2011 Well my story starts in the year 2000 when my ex wife and I lost our baby 3 months into the pregnancy. We had named him Brian William James Culp. Tho this was a miscarriage it hit us especially hard and it eventually tore our marriage apart. We wanted that child so bad and couldn't wait for his birth.

I left my wife in 2007 and moved to Welland, Ontario, Canada from Hamilton where I used to reside with the ex wife. A month after arriving in Welland while still crashing at my parents place while looking for a place of my own, I met a young lady named Sherry. She was 7 months pregnant and the father was not around. Before I new it we were pretty serious and then I went out one payday and picked up a car seat for the new coming child.

By this time I was in my own place a 2 bedroom apartment but lived alone with Sherry visiting over weekends with me. So I took my office room and turned it into a nursery. I WAS BACK IN BABY MODE AND LOVING IT!! I would spend hours painting and trimming and setting up the room for little baby "Hunter" when he arrived.

Then one night while she was home with her folks at about 2:30am right after I got home for the graveyard shift I got a call on my cell telling me that her water broke and she was balling and very scared.

Sherry was a cute little thing 5 foot nothing and 9 months pregnant and freaking out so I calmed her down and while calming her down I grabbed my home phone and called a cab and told them to hurry up my baby was on the way!! I paid the guy a $50 bill and told him to keep the change but to hurry and stop for nothing. I never seen a cabi so determined to not even stop for a cop. We ended up with a police escort right to the hospital it was nice to have.

Hunter was born January 14 2008 at exactly 3:56:54pm to the second!! Weighing in at 6.07lbs and 19 inches long. Mom and baby both suffered from complications due to stress and little Hunter James almost didn't make it. But thanks to great doctors Fantastic nurses and quick thinking by the head nurse and myself he was born and alive.

3 days later we were released from the hospital and on the 4th I went back to work. I had placed Sherry in a home called Hana house which is for single moms to help her learn since she had some limitations and needed help and my constant night shifts limited me to being able to be there constantly.

The CAS was involved in her life prior to us even meeting over a false allegation and yet they still stuck around and hassled her. Little did I know that Hana house who is run by an old friend of my family is actually in the pockets of the CAS and on the 4th day out of the hospital not even 12 hours into her stay at Hana house, not even settled in yet, they called the CAS while I was at work and they came and with the help of her aunt and grandmother took her baby from her and placed him into foster care.

I received the call at 6:30pm that evening and was not able to check til 9:30 when I left work and headed to her aunts where Sherry was. I was very upset with the family and took her to her mothers place because of the disgust for her aunt and grandmother. Then we headed home to my place where she continued to live from that point on.

She never got her child back. I watched as the system literally ripped her apart. They played her learning disability against her and humiliated her in public. They accused her of abuse and neglect yet I know for a fact she was never left alone not even for a second. They lied about the hospital report and when I went into the hospital to take it up with them they were upset and showed it to me to show that they did not say the things the CAS claimed they did. But the judge was not interested in the truth and would not hear the proof not even listen to the nurses in the court room itself.

I fought for the better part of a year and it killed me. the pressure was so much that it almost tore me apart. IT eventually costed our happy relationship due to no time being spent together as we were focused on the case constantly. Eventually I left the case and walked away. I just had no more steam left to fight for him. I even ended up in the hospital due to the stress. IT was literally killing me.

A little over 2 years later I ended up with another single mother. IT was not intentional but we seemed to hit it off and so I took another chance. She had 1 month 1 week old babies. They were so cute. There names are Constantine and Dallin. There mothers name is Tammy.

From day one I Was focused on mom however the kids being just over a month old and identical twins caused problems and they ended up with RSV and on my birthday were admitted to the hospital where they stayed for 2 weeks. I was there all the time with both babies and mom. I helped her care for them almost every day. I felt purpose again. It felt good to be a daddy again.

Last I seen them they were 8 1/2 months old. But early on in there lives their mother showed some red flags that I could not ignore. She started loosing control and twice in front of me hit little Dallin her least favorite of the 2. I told her after ther first time that this cannot happen and I will be forced to report her if she does it again. She didn't do it again for 4 more months. By then I had taken full responsibility as the Legal father for the twins so they would never have to worry about not having a proper daddy. I was happy to do it and I loved them very much.

When they were 6 1/2 months old she hit Dallin again. First when 4 months and now at 6 and this time was the worst. He had a problem feeding so usually I fed him so that this sort of thing wouldn't happen again. But I did have to switch now and again so they both would have daddys attention.

This time I had constantine on my lap while she fed dallin. Here is what happened. She pulled the bottle out of his mouth and jammed it back in so hard he got a fat lip, then she pulled it out again and slamed the bottle down and raised her left hand and smacked his elbow so hard it swelled for several days afterword. She then grabbed him by the ankle and pulled him off her lap all the while his poor little head hit her knees coming off. SHe then stood up and grabbed him by the wrist on the same arm she just hit (his right) she then carried him by his wrist only over the coffee table and threw him on the floor to which his head bounced twice. Then she continued to scream every word she could think of at him.

The entire time this was happening I was trying to put constantine in a place where he would be safe and wouldn't roll over while I saved his brother. but by the time I got him situated all the above had already happened. I got off the sofa with such emotion!! I grabbed mom and put her up against the wall hard!! I made it clear to her verbally only that if she touches him again the cops will be the least of her worries. She then went to grab Constantine and I told her to get away from both of them! I will handle them now go the bedroom and wait for me to come in.

I then comforted DAllin which was very hard to do because he was so scared more then anything else. I put an ice pack on his little arm, and got the swelling to drop a bit. with my other hand I finished feeding his brother his bottle and attemped to get Dallin to drink some more but he refused. Then I put them both in their chairs and fed them their cereal and played with them a bit while still going off and on with the ice on dallin to keep the swelling down.

Finally I took constantine to his room with his brother still in his chair but being pulled by my other hand so I could keep an eye on him. I changed them both and very quickly constantine fell asleep but poor dallin was having a hard time. So I ended up spending a good 2 hours putting him down before he finally fell asleep and still he would wake every couple hours taking about an hour to fall asleep again each time. Needless to say I stayed awake all night and in their room.

I kept records of all the problems in the home. I was torn whether to use it or not and report her. Twins are tough and I don't doubt many parents loose it now and again. BUT THIS WAS TWICE NOW!! I was scared to do it for I new that CAS would probably ignore my requests due to the past case I fought to protect Sherry. I Was right for when I reported it they did NOTHING.

The worker pretended to me her own supervisor and I aint no ones fool. I launched a case against Tammy for joint custody. I figured if I go for joint then I can insure that she won't hurt them with out actually taking them away.

Her best friend works for a lawyer and got one of her boses to fight for Tammy. THis lawyer is friends with the judge too. So of course I would loose. My lawyer was being paid by legal aid so he wouldn't work. So I was forced to drop the case. IT was the only way to protect the rights given to me in the agreement we signed in july of 2010. Since no judge seen it or made an order against it, that means it still stands up in court.
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The boys are now about to turn 2 on march 12th of 2012. I have yet to be able to see them and the CAS will not help, Tammy will not allow it, the lawyers won't do their jobs and the system is so screwed that even the law isn't backed up by the judges.

She has a new boyfriend since 2 weeks after we broke up. HE has been playing daddy ever since. You can imagine how I feel? I can't even send them gifts for christmas or their birthdays. Not so much as a picture sent to me. I have to spy her damn facebook just to get a pic of them.

LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING EVERYONE!! DON'T GIVE UP HOPE!! PUSH ON AND DON'T STOP STANDING UP FOR YOUR KIDS!! DON'T BE AFRAID OF THE SYSTEM!! WHEN THEY PUSH YOU PUSH HARDER BACK!!

For you canadians who may be reading this. Here are a few tips on how to beat them. I wish I new these sooner they would have helped both cases.

DON'T LET THOSE DISGUSTING PEOPLE NEAR YOUR KIDS. IF your a single parent sign a joint custody order with another person you trust who will put the kids first. This way if they manage to come with an apprehension order they can't take them unless there are no available parents and since you would have a signed agreement with another person that person would have to come get them, and they would be safe till you clear your name while you still get to see them all you want.

MEET THEM ON YOUR TERMS NOT THEIRS!!!!!!!! MOST IMPORTANT!!
CALL THEM BACK WHEN THEY ARE NOT IN OFFICE SO THEY HAVE TO CALL YOU BACK THIS WAY YOU CAN RECORD THEM LEGALLY. THATS HOW THEY DO IT TO YOU!!

WRITE DOWN EVERYTHING!! AND I MEAN EVERYTHING!! BE SURE TO RECORD MEETINGS WITH THEM SO YOU CAN DOCUMENT IT WHEN YOU GET HOME OR THEY WILL BE CAREFUL WITH WHAT THEY SAY.

DO NOT EVER MEET WITH THEM WITH OUT A CREDIBLE WITNESS!! DO NOT AND I MEAN IT!! IF YOU DO THEY WILL LIE!! MAKE SURE YOUR NOT ALONE WITH THEM!!

IF THEY ATTEMPT TO TAKE YOUR KIDS AND CLAIM TO HAVE AN APPREHENSION ORDER MAKE THEM GIVE IT TO YOU SO YOU CAN READ IT. THEY HAVE TO ITS THE LAW!! THEY ALSO MUST HAVE THE POLICE PRESENT OR THEY CANNOT TAKE THEM.

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LET THEM IN YOUR HOME. BE SURE OF THEIR INTENTIONS BEFORE YOU LET THEM IN THAT DOOR!! AND BE SURE TO NOT BE ALONE WITH THEM. AGAIN I STRESS DO EVERYTHING ON YOUR OWN TERMS NOT THEIRS.

Contrary to popular belief the CAS can be intimidated. IF they see you know the system and are doing the same things they are then they will be more likely to back off. THey want easy apprehensions for their $5000 bonuses. Yes thats right they get a HUGE BONUS for taking your kids, with a reason or not and thats per child!! and if the child is under 1 or 2 it can become a $10000 bonus if they win the case. SO FYI ITS ABOUT MONEY NOT YOUR KIDS!! Because they have a high demand for babys through adoption.

I am not afraid of them. What more can they do to me? They kept me from my boys so they can suck it!! I fight for all yours now!! TEll me where you need the help and I AM THERE!!

Your friend

Phil Culp

Loving father of Constantine and Dallin and one pissed off daddy with a vengeance!!

Hope this helps your site and I will help where I can my friend ;)

Oh and if you have members from the welland area I can provide names of bad workers. Give them my email and I will happily hand out that information.